A Path I Didn't Know I Wanted to Take

We frequently use the word "path" to describe a figurative journey.  Follow your path...take the path to....it's your/my/our path...

                             

About six months ago I started a new "path" after being offered a job at a furniture store. I wasn't completely sold on the idea of working in sales, but I was just sitting at home not really doing much so, I thought, why not? Especially since I really enjoy "home" decor stuff...color, pattern, fabrics, furniture, decor, etc., and watch HGTV et al incessantly.  This might be THE opportunity to combine an an interest and make a little moo-lah. Isn't that what successful "people"  are always saying??? Do what you love and you'll be successful?  I like people, I'm outgoing, I enjoy home fashion, yada-yada, so it seemed like a no-brainer..... plus with just hubby and I in the house, there really wasn't enough going on to fill each day so I took the plunge.

But I was unsure and uncomfortable at first. I have always done "admin work" for a variety of companies; always working in an office atmosphere. It had been, for the most part, enjoyable and rewarding work, and tasks became easy for me; it was a comfortable place. Now I was't completely comfortable. In fact I was really uncomfortable. Fear of rejection mostly, but also fear that I wouldn't feel successful as I had felt with my previous jobs.

It took a couple of weeks to feel comfortable enough and start to develop the confidence to start "designing" for customers/clients rather than just write up an order for things they selected. The confidence came from feeling like the customers needed my help because I knew, in my heart of hearts, what they were buying wouldn't coordinate or look right.  I felt like it was my "duty" to advise them so their room would look its best. I truly wanted the customer to feel they had a special experience, was happy with their purchase, and enjoyed the whole process of furnishing their room.

In the last three months I began working on whole room design with a few clients. It has been fun and exciting to visit their homes and help them put together a space that they love. Most important to me is that I feel I have earned their respect and trust a a true professional.

I like this path...and I can see it expanding and evolving. I think I am intuitive with this work. You are part artist and part therapist for each client. Its all good for me. I'm planning and learning all the time and I think I know where I want it to go....but mum's the word right now.